Thursday, 31 May 2018

Learning All The Time

Learning home education art in the art gallery
Making Art in the Art Gallery

Learning all the time is the title of one of my favourite John Holt books on home education. For me it sums up the basic tenet of our home schooling and the cornerstone of my philosophy of life. Learning is not something to be confined to one place or one time, but is as natural to us as breathing.

Learning about Flowers

Henry Ford said,

"Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. He who continues to learn stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young."

And I'm reminded of one of my friend's from our local knitting club. She's in her seventies and still learning all the time. The look of enthusiasm on her face as she told me recently about a botanical outing by our local river said it all. Stay curious, take every opportunity to learn and you will find and enjoy the wonder in the world around you. 

Learning all the time, lys, observation
Lys du jardin - spot the visitor!

Experience tells us that as we get older we sadly tend to lose the open eyed view of the world we cherish in our children. Our experiences constantly modify our interpretation of everything we do. The innocent curiosity of childhood is lost to our judgements, knowledge and the tired paths our neurons keep traveling. And time seems to pass faster.

Learning all the time, rambling rose and bee
Rambling Rose Albertine and Friend

According to Douwe Draaisma, dutch psychologist and author of Why life speeds up as you get older, that's because as we get older discoveries and novelties tend to become rarer. As a child we are adventurous, big exciting experiences and discoveries are common. First trip in an airplane, first time sleeping in a hotel, first day at school, first time buying the bread all by yourself. 

learning all the time petunia stamen
First time I saw the stamen

But if we're learning all the time, if we make a conscious choice to look at the world with what the Buddhist's call the beginner's mind, then we can stay young of heart and mind.



learning all the time pivoines
Pivoine - my wedding flowers - gift for our 10th anniversary

Practically speaking this might mean starting something new, trying a food you've never tried before or taking a walk in silence listening to the noises around you as if you've never heard them before. Or why not reading a new book? I could probably have called this reading all the time and the point would have been the same! Try a new author or a completely new subject. Check out the wonderful brainpickings.org for new ideas. You could even join their weekly newsletter? 

learning all the time spotting the tiny things
Fly on the Hortensia - spotting the tiny things!

I suppose above all what I'm getting at is a quality of attention. The same quality I try to bring to listening to my children. The same quality I bring to my photography (alongside practice - see Observe, practice, be grateful). The same quality I seek when I'm writing poetry. And the same quality I hope my children will foster throughout their lives, not just to stay young but to stay filled with wonder at this wonderful world we are so lucky to live in!

P.S. If you do try something or read something new, please share with me, I'd love to hear about it!

Coming Soon... How botanical drawing fosters mindfulness and scientific observation! 

learning all the time raindrops on maple leaves
Raindrops on Maple Leaves



Friday, 25 May 2018

On the Road

Yes we've been on the road recently, hence the online silence. Somehow I never seem to be able to travel, take photos and get round to uploading them and writing blog posts all at once. 

In fact generally I'm not that great a multi-tasker. I put it down to my mindfulness practice, all that when knitting just knit, when washing up just wash up has kind of cured me from doing lots of things at once. 

So we've been out and about on the road in Great Britain, France and Holland! Well that last one was only me, but hey solo trips are fantastic right? They really recharge the parenting, home educating batteries like nothing else. 

So here's some eye candy for you from our fun times. As usual we combined family, friends and some educational visits along the way. Home schooling never stops not even for holidays! We really believe in learning all the time just like our man John Holt said.

Celebrating 12 with her grandparents!

Bird watching at the amazing Rutland Waters

Catching up with British cousins

And French cousins


The Eiffel Tower

 
The Louvre


The Louvre encore

Copying hieroglyphs

Cousins drawing together

Amsterdam crochet and bikes of course!

Amsterdam, city of bicycles